A Mother’s Legacy

I made a lot of mistakes. A lot of times I tried and failed in ways to be the person that I wanted to be for my girls, and always the example for them, and to inspire in them confidence to be the person God wanted them to be as well. But, we are not perfect, and I knew I could improve in ways knowing God was with me because I trusted in him to direct and guide my every step. I knew that he would always be with me, that I would never have to worry about being alone or afraid, even in raising my children. I knew that I could count on him. Admitting to having made mistakes is a step forward to improving what we need to work on. But dwelling on those mistakes is precious time wasted and can bring us down. Attempts to right our wrongs will not change the fact that something was wrong in the first place, but taking one day at a time and making it one with a positive attitude is how we can make strides toward being the person God wants us to be, and the mother we need to be. It is what I have learned as a mother and as a grandmother. This is what I wish to pass on to my girls while raising their children, and in turn their children’s children as grandparents. This is a part of my legacy I hope will be remembered. The kind where I grew not by striving towards unreachable goals, then failing in the attempt, but instead growing through the difficult, hard times that left me vulnerable and dependent on God to lift me to a higher standard of excellence.

I knew I might never measure up to be the woman told about in Proverbs 31 of the Old Testament, but we are all unique in the way God created us, and our gifts unique in the way we might use them to govern our steps in raising our children. God is a God full of grace, mercy and forgiving. He walks with us through our journey and does not judge us for our mistakes, but loves us unconditionally and honors our effort to do our best. That is the most reassuring thing of all, because we are nothing without him, but with him we can do incredible things we thought otherwise impossible.

Proverbs 31: 26 “She opens her mouth with wisdom: and on her tongue is the law of kindness.”

Prov. 31:28 “Her children arise up and call her blessed…”

Prov. 31:29 “Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excels them all.”

Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers and grandmothers out there. God bless you all.

Joyce E. Mannhalter © May, 2020

Posted May 10, 2020 by Joyce in Faith, Mother's Day, My Writings

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